
What Do People Want From Using Alcohol & Other Drugs
Submitted by illnessinrecovery on October 29th, 2009The fact that many people start to use alcohol and other drugs, but only about 10% go on to become heavy or addicted users which leads me to another question. “What did people want to get from using alcohol and other drugs? What do they want the booze and drugs to do for them?” Surprisingly almost everyone gave me one of seven answers to that question.
What People Want From Using Drugs
1. To Get High
2. To Relax
3. To Be More Social
4. To Manage Feelings
5. To Get More Energy
6. To Block Out Pain
7. To Be More Spiritual
Let’s look at each of these in more detail.
First, some people use alcohol and drugs To Get High. They want to have the euphoric feelings of their drug of choice, which they cannot get in any other way. Some people feel good when they start using alcohol and drugs. In fact, they feel better then they have ever felt. They do not feel “drunk” or “stoned” in the usual sense of those words. What they feel is a unique sense of well-being. Everything seems right. Everything seems to be working well. They feel normal, competent, functional and relaxed. They feel like they can handle anything and do anything that they want to do.
I call this unique feeling of well-being euphoria. This state of euphoria, this special feeling, this unique state of consciousness is different from anything else we have ever experienced. This is the feeling that addicts want to have. After awhile, this becomes the feeling that they need to have and become willing to do just about anything to get.
Second, some people use alcohol and drugs To Relax, to turn off stress, get away from pressure. They calm down to feel mellow. The Downers are the usual drug of choice for relaxing.
Third, some people use alcohol and drugs To Be More Social. They want to make it easier to get along with other people. Many people find that they feel better about themselves when they are drinking and drugging. As result, it is easier for them to deal with other people. This newfound social ease is caused in part by the biological actions of the alcohol and drugs. Another big part is psychological. When under the influence of alcohol and drugs many people can give themselves permission to do things that they would never be able to do sober. Many people develop a social persona based upon their self-image as a drinker and drug user.
If they were to stop using alcohol and other drugs, they wouldn’t be sure of who they really were, how people viewed them, and how they fit into the world. In the next Gorski Blog I will review the other reasons why people want to start.

